It will take bold honesty to swallow this morsel:  If you are Jewish, surely for the vast majority of us, there are important decisions that you have no part in that are made for you. The first such decision is made for all of us males at the tender age of 8 days. I am sure there has never been one of us who at that time made the decision to be circumcised.
There are a series of other decisions that were made for us throughout our childhood. Bedtime, school, diet, …